I hate flash websites, probably a little too much, I admit. The entire point of a website is almost completely lost when it's built with flash.
Slow loading flash with no SEO ability? No.
Music? No.
'Made by' banners? No.
Navigation text the same colour as parts of the background? No.
A massive URL that no one will remember? No.
An enormous, seemingly random photograph in the background? No.
A carousel that spins faster than the wheels on the bus? No.
Replacing the globally recognised "Home" button with a "Splash" button? No.
And last but not least, I don't believe that image of you on the About page reflects the level of professionalism required and/or sought by a potential client. I don't know about your marketing strategy and who your target markets are, but from viewing that site I would say hobbyists and friends and family.
I like the background colour though and I think that used correctly the font you've chosen for the header could work well-ish. I note that on your about page you've mentioned 7 years design experience. It looks to me like you learned graphic design a long time ago and left it at that. There is a big difference between graphic design and web design, however often they are thrown together under the same name.
You mention wanting to rank highly in Google, however, I note that you do not own your own domain, do not use a business email account and obviously you haven't coded your own website - so I'm wondering how much you know about SEO and the best way to go about implementing it.
By all means have a go, but if this is your business, your livelihood, then I strongly recommend hiring a professional to do this properly - of which there are many on this forum who can do an excellent job.